Now this may come as a shock to you but women do NOT get turned on when the first thing you run for is her pants. A woman’s arousal doesn’t start physically it starts in her mind. Before starting in foreplay, you need to make sure you stimulate her mind of what is about to happen. By this I mean she needs to be creating mental images of your lovemaking even before you have kissed her. Not sure how to do this? Just follow these tips and you’ll be on your way to turning your girl on in no time!
Tip #1: Do not rush straight into the physical arousal of a girl. As mentioned before you need to start stimulating her mind in order to get her into the mood. If she is too busy thinking about what is going to be on the telly tonight and your too busy trying to undo her jeans your minds are in the complete opposite mode. Take your time and remember patience will really pay off!
Tip #2: Make sure you smell nice. As silly as this may sound you need make sure you smell nice if you really want to turn a girl on. Many girls will instantly be put off by bad body odour (BO) and other smells such as cigarettes and alcohol. Before stepping into the bedroom with her make sure you are sprayed with nice cologne or after-shave.
Tip #3: Compliment her. Let her know that you fancy her and are not just concentrating on getting her into bed having your way and then leaving. Say something about her hair or her eyes but remember not to go overboard as you may start to border on being creepy.
Tip #4: Create the proper ambiance. This has to be one of the most important tips because if you do not create the right atmosphere for the girl it will be harder to turn her on. Make sure it is quiet so you can hear each other’s whispers. Also it is a good idea to have the lights on dim and not full blast. Again make sure your wearing you best cologne or after-shave as hitting her sense of smell will make her focus all her senses on you.
Tip #5: Approach her slowly. No matter how hard it is to resist, no matter how good her body looks DO NOT come into like a raging bull. Instead approach her sensually keeping good eye contact with her and take your time. Occasionally have your eyes linger on her lips then back to her eyes again, this will be a great way to show her you are going to kiss her.
Tip #6: Kiss her body. A good way to get her senses tingling is by kissing her body. Now I’m not talking about any tongue action, no, what you need to do is land light butterfly kisses down her neck to her collarbone and then back up again. Gradually work your way lower around her chest to her stomach but again work your way back up again. Do not rush your kissing to get down south. This will also act as a teasing agent, which in return will get her very turned on.
Tip #7: Touch her body with your hands. Another good way to get her senses tingling is to touch her body with your hands whilst kissing her. When kissing her she will have her eyes closed so her senses on her body will become stronger. Touch her waist, hips and thighs by having your hands following her curves (remember touch don’t squeeze!). Slowly work your way to the bottom but again don’t rush. By doing this her body will want you to go lower and every time you refuse, it will get her turned on that little bit more.
