Not every man on the planet knows how to approach women or girls. If you’re one of them then do not worry as you will be one of the many men who don’t, only you have admitted it and decided to do something about it. If you don’t know how to approach women then you may be missing out on the first step for finding that special girl of your dreams and maybe even your mate for life. The way you choose to approach a girl can make or break your chances of taking her out on a date or even just buying her a drink.
Now the first thing to remember about approaching women is that it is a game. Many men have failed and succeeded in this game simply by knowing or not knowing the art of approaching. It all comes down to the way the game is played and if you get married and have kids I’m sorry to say you’re not out of the game yet, you still have to play. But before we get to the marriage stage we need to get pat the approaching stage so lets take a look!
Right, remember girls are used to getting approached, fact. Now imagine you are out in a public place, a bar, pub, club etc and you see every other guy in there, picture them as white sheep (as silly as it may sound). Now if every guy is a white sheep they all blend in together, nothing really stands out. You have to become the one and only black sheep in the crowd. You must stand out from the rest. You may find yourself having more a chance in “bars” if you do not drink alcohol, instead drink water, pop or other non-alcoholic drinks. It may sound kind of silly but this will help put you in the right mind set. Why not give it a try the next time you are out and about (you don’t want to become a little white sheep like every other guy i.e. a slurring drunk)
Take a look at these few short tips on approaching women:
Tip #1: Be confident when you approach them but not too much to the point where you are being cocky as this will only make you look like a jerk. Many women can tell when you are nervous or scared.
Tip #2: When talking to them try to make good eye contact but DO NOT stare them down, as you will only be giving yourself the nice name of weirdo! Also remember (as hard as this may be) their shirt is not their eyes! Keep eye contact to the face and no lower as this can land you a nice slap across the face.
Tip #3: Don’t forget to smile! Girls can’t resist a nice big smile on you face as it gives off a friendly positive energy. If you don’t have a great smile with your teeth then smile with your mouth closed, but smile…a lot!
Remember guys that approaching women does not have to be hard. Women are not monsters; they will not bite your head off. In fact many girls are just as nervous as you so take control and show them your not like every other white sheep in the bar but a nice guy who is polite and friendly.
