Come on girls as much as we would love to spot a nice guy and have him come over, take a bow and kiss u on the hand this age is well and truly over! Instead of waiting for him to make the first move (and in some situations you could be waiting all night) if you see what you want then go get it. Here are a few “friendly” ways you can make the first move a.k.a. if he turns out to have a girlfriend then what’s the big deal you were just being friendly right?
Tip 1: The Old Trip and Fall
This one has to be one of the most affective ways of “accidently” catching your mans attention. When your walking past take a little tumble and lightly fall into your man just enough to get him to turn around and acknowledge you. From then on you can just apologise and have a little giggle over your trip and if he likes you he will try his best to start a conversation with you.
Tip 2: Ask For His Help
I have to say this one worked well for my friend. She saw her hot man waiting to order some drinks at the bar and told us she liked him but thought she would wait for him to spot her. Me being quite considerate and noticing that my drink was running low I told her to simply go up to the bar and order a round of drinks for us. When it comes to carrying them I told her to try and pick them up and then ask for his help. A simple “Hi, sorry but could you just help me carry these drinks over there my friends sent me to get the round by myself” and a little giggle was it all it took. Try this the next time you spot you’re your hot man waiting at the bar for a drink.
Tip 3: Talk To His Friend
Now when I say this I don’t mean go up to his friends and start flirting with them as this can give the guy you’re after the wrong impression. If you have a group of friends with you and he has his friends go up to one of them and tell them that your friend likes him and wants to know if she can have his number. If he hasn’t noticed you before he certainly will notice you now and if he likes you he won’t want you spending all your time talking to his friends so would be more than happy to start a conversation with you.
Tip 4: Ask For Directions
This is quite a common yet still affective way to start a conversation with a guy no matter where you are. All you need to do with this technique is hover around the guy with a lost or puzzled look on your face and when you catch his eye go up to him and ask him “excuse me but do you know where XXX is I’m completely lost” You can also crack a small joke to break the tension like “I can’t read this map to save my life.” Although this can be affective you need to use the right tone of voice because if you use a rushed voice he may get the impression that you don’t want to stay around and chat and are actually genuinely asking for directions.
Tip 5: Compliment His Clothing
Every guy loves a girl to compliment him on his clothing. When you see your hot guy just casually go up to him and say something like “I’m sorry but I just had to ask where you got that shirt from because it’s really nice” and if he seems interested and begins to flirt then you can take it from there. Now the beauty about this technique is similar to that of asking him for his help, if he seems to not be interested in that way or had a girlfriend you can improvise by saying “yeah I would love to buy one of them shirts for my brother” or in an extreme case you can say for your boyfriend to show that your not trying to flirt with him if he is not interested in you.
In the wild world of dating men love to have girls come up to them to start conversations as not all men are confident in talking or starting a conversation with girls. When you start the conversation it gives him a chance to carry it on and being the one to make the first move doesn’t have to be daunting when you use fun techniques like the ones above. Remember if your technique seems to be going the wrong way you can just improvise by turning off the flirting and turning on the friendly manner.
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this is stupid if a girl bumped into me i’d be pissed off and tell her to watch where shes fuckin walking, if she talks to my friend i take it shes not interested in me at all
Thanks for your comment synapse. Different ways work for different people. I know that I wouldn’t have met two really nice guys if my sister hadn’t nudged me to them. Not a full blown fall and squash them, just a tumble which means you steady yourself by lightly touching their shoulder or arm.